Whether it is that mean girl on the play ground or a girl calling you fat or ugly, it hurt when we are bullied. The definition of a bully is someone who intentionally and repetitively hurts someone weaker than him. Now, I don't think there are any girls at your school demanding for your lunch money or waiting for you behind the schoolyard but I am almost certain there are girls who talk behind your back or intimidate you. Sometimes they don't even know they are being mean. Your friends that really do care about you could be bothering you and they thought they were just joking. In that case, tell them. If they are true friends they will stop. In other cases, some girls intentionally talk about you so you know all the bad things they say. The number one reason girls do that is because they feel bad about themselves, so they pick on others to make them feel better. If something they said hurts your feelings and you and the ones you care about know it's not true, than why fret? I mean does their input really matter? of course not. I know it seems hard but, ignore it. If it makes them feel like the better person, hey that's their problem. Just remember, when that girl at school hurts you, don't fight back, It can only make things worse. And as my good friend once told me, you objective in life shouldn't be seeing who is most popular. It's all about getting into those pearly gates and the end of the road, right?
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